They want to know how men acquire this manner of speaking, and why especially when society so often stigmatizes those with gay-sounding voices. Rogers and smyth are also exploring the stereotypes that gay men sound effeminate and are recognized by the way they speak. They asked people to listen to recordings of 25 men, 17 of them gay. Ive heard estrogen can change a males voice - but does that mean every gay guy who talks feminine takes estrogen supplements? Ive seen a few guys before that had totally normal voices, but id say 80 of guys have that specific tone. gay adolescents, thorpe points out, often learn that the tell of their sexuality is their voices, even more so than physicalitya limp wrist is easier to straighten out than an inflection. most of us are familiar with the stereotype of a gay voice. A man speaks at a higher pitch, and in a more melodious fashion. whether its reporting on conflicts abroad and political divisions at home, or covering the latest style trends and scientific developments, new york times video journalists provide a revealing. in this episode i use my girl voice changer to chat with random strangers and make them fall in love with me! Hope you enjoy! Did you enjoy? Leave a like! D 20,000 likes for more! Subscribe. none of my gay friends talk in the stereotypical gay man voice, unless of course theyre parodying that voice. Just, a lot of the gay men portrayed in the media use that voice, and although thats probably not where the stereotype originated, thats more than likely how it spread. Gay peoples voices do not change any more than straight peoples voices change. All voices get a little deeper with age, but this happens regardless of sexual orientation.